Naturally I'm a word person and a deep thinker. So every now and then, I take my time to masticate, enjoy and absorb my own thoughts.

These thoughts I freely share with you using this medium. So today I've deliberately soaked in my thoughts and I'll love to share.

Here we go!
But I'll love you to take it slowly ...
Savour the taste!

It's one thing to have Eyes, it's another to have eyes that see.
It's one thing to have a Heart, it's another to have a heart that understands!

It's one thing to pray for an opportunity but it is also not as easy to spot an opportunity when you see one;
and even when you do spot the opportunity, it takes a whole lot more to grab it!

It is one thing to have goals and it yet another to be knowledgeable about prioritizing...

It's even  way tougher to order your priorities right, on a scale of preference! 

It's one thing to have a scale of preference and it is yet another to have it structured on sound judgement.... 

It is one thing to know about sound judgement and counsel but it way tougher to understand perspective!

It is one thing to be conscious of external perspectives, it is also another to understand the string of events that formed the said perspective.....

If you understand the string of events, it's a different ball game to make excuses for them!

It's one thing to make excuses based on these events but it is yet another to forgive the underlying course of action.....

It is one thing to forgive the course of actions but it is yet another to forget it!

It is one thing to forget but it yet another to reinstate affection!

Truly life is Deep, Deeper than the sound of the word! 

If we can do a little pondering,
If we can try to rearrange this article from the bottom to the first line,
All the answers we expect life to give us will be staring us right in the face!

Let me make this easy for you by rearranging every highlighted word .. .

If you intend to move forward, then my friends, you must learn to ;

Reinstate affection(be it for people, a person or a cause), forget the course of action (and let me add, inactions), make excuses for the string of events....

Consider them the result of perspective, depend more on counsel and sound judgement to build your scale of preference......

As you prioritize your goals, you will be able to grab the opportunities you have spotted and prayed for.... 

Let your heart be ruled by understanding, only then will you see clearly, choose wisely and build a secured future! 

Love,
Chioma Agwu Mba,
Your Fragile Giant!